u can be nb and still call yourself boyfriend/girlfriend or still like being called boy/girl/any gendered term because guess what???? gender is fake and so is language and that’s just how it is on this bitch of an earth
⭐️ you are amazing!
⭐️ you are so so strong!
⭐️ you have all the skills you need to succeed!
⭐️ it’s not as scary as you think it’ll be!
⭐️ you can do it!
⭐️ everything is going to be just fine!
i’m so done with people saying bisexuality isn’t known, i’ve been knowing bisexuality since i was 9 years old, and i heard about it more than once a week ever since
pansexuality and asexuality is something i had to discover by myself on the internet when i was 18, because nobody knew what is was, or did just never told me it existed, and i felt broken for 18 years
grandkid:
you were alive before gay marriage was legal? what was that like?
me:
fuckin stupid
what she says:
the mayor deserves to be happy
what she means:
The Wayward Vagabond suffered so much more hardship and stress and violence than any one person should have to endure. His home and lively hood was destroyed by a war he had resigned from. He single-handedly started an enormous rebellion against the Black King and was on the verge of victory when Jack Noir slaughtered everyone in sight before his eyes, leaving him the sole survivor. He then wandered aimlessly and alone through a post apocalyptic Earth for god knows how long until he discovered Can Town, freed Serenity, and made friends with Peregrine Mendicant and Aimless Renegade. He watched John die on his quest bed and he's suffered nightmares due to his war experience and subconsciously blames himself for the death of his allies in the rebellion. One of his only friends was decapitated by Bec Noir, his other friend had to put on the White Queen's ring, and he himself was impaled though the gut by Bec Noir for a chunk of uranium and only barely survived. The Mayor deserves to live out his dream of being a mayor in a democratic utopia where his citizens are safe from tyranny and violence. He deserves to have friends who are alive and love him and treat him with kindness. He deserves to finally be safe from the violence of a game that has terrorized him and murdered his friends. The Mayor deserves to be happy after everything he's gone through.
THIS. ANNOYS ME. SO MUCH. THAT THIS IS THE RECOMMENDED RESPONSE. ON GOOGLE.
Bisexuality does not instantly equal binary. It does not mean we are solely attracted to cisgender men and women. Bisexuality does not mean we are transphobic or avoid relationships with intersex, genderqueer, transgender, dual gender, etc
I find a lot of people saying “pansexuality is more spiritual and we don’t care about genitalia like SOME people” NO. NO. Being bisexual does not equal “I love genitalia more then someone’s personality” I have every respect for pansexual people, and there are plenty of pansexual people and their supporters who don’t think like this, but those that do REALLY FUCKING BUG ME.
THIS IS NOT THE DIFFERENCE. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO ISN’T “ONE IS BINARY AND PHOBIC OF OTHER GENDERS AND THE OTHER IS ALL ACCEPTING AND LOVING AND SHIT”. If you ask my opinion as someone who has identified as bisexual for quite a while now there are two points to this argument:
1. stop fucking making a big deal out of how someone labels themselves. If they’re asking for your help fine. But if they want to be labelled as bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, asexual, lithosexual, demiromantic, aromatic, biromantic, panromantic, lithoromantic whatever they freaking want, ITS NOT YOUR FUCKING JOB TO LABEL THEM DIFFERENTLY OR QUESTION THEM ON IT. THEY DON’t HAVE TO ENTERTAIN YOUR IDEA OF WHAT THEY SHOULD AND SHOULDN’T BE.
2. Now while I can’t speak for anyone, I think for me the difference between bisexual isn’t the bullshit above, but rather that pansexuals are ‘genderblind’ as in in gender doesn’t really freaking matter to them, whereas bisexuals enjoy aspects of femininity and masculinity, not necessarily just in cisgender men and women, but it doesn’t mean that they’re inherently against anything that isn’t defined under masculinity or femininity. Essentially, like a combination of gynesexuality and androsexuality NOT A FUCKING BINARY CODE THAT MAKES THEM INHERENTLY AGAINST OTHER GENDERS OUTSIDE OF CIS OKAY?!
Now can we all stop fucking throwing a fit over this and go home and accept people for who they are rather then labelling them and pointing fingers!?
Pansexuality isn’t only “genderblind”. It’s true for a part of the community but I personnaly ID with the “attracted to all genders” def.
Otherwise all of you’re saying is so true that I’m worried some people still thinks like that.
