Dear teenagers and pre-teens under the age of consent, under the age to drink alcohol or smoke, etc
Please, be careful. This isn’t about sex-shaming or anything. I just want you to know the laws are in place to protect you. There is a reason why you are still legally a child.
Be safe sweethearts. Enjoy your childhood while it lasts. We’re in a society now that, whether unintentionally or not, is putting pressure on you to grow up faster, to want to be adults. No matter how you may feel about this, or that I or other people older then you don’t understand, or you think I’m being ageist, I’m saying this because your childhood will be gone in a blink of an eye, and then you’ll be wondering where it’s gone.
And if someone over the age of consent tries to encourage you into sleeping with them, acknowledge please that regardless what you may think, the huge brain differences that happen between the ages 12-18 mean that dating someone, or being involved with them sexually, over the age of consent is dangerous and illegal. Anyone over the age of consent should know better then to sleep with a child, or even suggest it. Believe it or not, even just a year or two can make all the difference in a teenage mind. And if anyone is trying to pressure you into alcohol, or smoking, when you are not at a legal age to do so, please remember the laws are there for your health. Your minds are still growing and alcohol and other substances can seriously inhibit that growth. Be careful. If someone is trying to force you, try to get away from them if you can, separate them from your life, or get help.
Sweethearts, you are all still so young. Enjoy your youth while it lasts. Try not to trouble yourself with alcohol and sex and relationships and violence. Take care of yourselves. Nobody wants to see you hurt.
And babies, if any of you are suicidal, or being hurt or abused or anything to make you feel like the above things I’ve mentioned are necessary, seek help. It’s scary; I know. But your safety is priority.
Be safe lovelies and know that adulthood will come in it’s own time.
We want to write about pansexuality today to help anyone get a clear picture of what it is and how it is different from other sexualities.
Many people confuse pansexuality, demisexuality, bisexuality, and polysexuality a lot and is understandable. Two of them are similar, two of them overlap in some ways, and three of them are relatively new formed sexualities.
For all of you funny ones, pansexuality is not being attracted to pans, or for you Spanish speaking people, nor the attraction to bread. Many people have come up to ask me about pansexuality. Before explaining it, I ask them what they think it is. Most of them tell me they had heard a pansexual was a person that wasn’t attracted to anyone unless they had a strong romantic bond with the person, which is in fact wrong, that is demisexuality.
Some people thought it was another word for bisexual just like homosexuals have other names such as gays, lesbians, queers, etc. which is also wrong.
Someone who identifies as pansexual is someone who is attracted to any person regardless of their sex or gender identity. In Greek, the prefix “pan” means all. Thus, pansexuality means all sexes/genders. Pansexuality, like all other sexualities, has been around forever, but has only been recognized recently.
IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Waited Until My Wedding Night to Lose My Virginity and I Wish I Hadn’t [x]
This is a long read but it’s interesting. Really sad though.
And then on the other side of the spectrum are those of us whose virginity was taken far too soon by a member of the church.