@halfcrazedauthorKey Terms:
cis: a term for trans and nonbinary people to use to describe people who are not trans or nonbinary
perisex: a term for intersex people to use to describe people who are not intersex; previously known as dyadic
straight: a term to describe someone who is a heteroromantic heterosexual
alloromantic: a term for aromantics to use to describe people who are not aromantic
allosexual: a term for asexuals to use to describe people who are not asexual
monosexism: belief that everyone is only attracted to one sex or gender (i.e. heterosexuality or homosexuality); has nothing to do with polyamory/polygamy (that’s monogamy)
exorsexism: belief that everyone falls on the gender binary and is either wholly, exclusively male or wholly, exclusively female
binarism: belief that sex and gender are two distinct, opposite and disconnected forms of masculine and feminine (subset of colonialism, not a term for white people to use)~*~
This is hardly an extensive list of all the terms, especially where gender is concerned, but I wanted to try my hand at making a list of common terms and labels for general use.
Edit: fixed bisexual definition, may add new Queer flag.
I found a thing.
i found a bunch of things for people who do not have a lot of things.
i apologize if there are any problematic blogs in there, i tried very hard not to have any controversial tumblrs in this list.
i also apologize if there aren’t as many nonbinary links, it was much harder to find non-binary references, as you can probably imagine.
there are tons of things i probably missed, so feel free to add on to this post.my favorites are in bold.
NON-BINARY SPECTRUM
BLOGS
theartoftranliness’s masterpost
nonbinary-support’s masterpost
EXTERNAL LINKS
gender resource and education society
transgenderteensurvivalguide’s nonbinary masterpost
list of pronouns (obviously not a complete list)
TRANS* SPECTRUM
BLOGS
EXTERNAL LINKS
glaad’s trans media and health program
huffington post’s list of trans refs
the guardian’s list of trans refs
lgbt youth & schools resources and links
school search engine (while searching for references I found that a lot of major colleges have transgender help pages)
EXTRA
the difference between bi and pan 1 2
edit: heres some more blogs because there are a lot of good ones out there. not all of these are technically resources, most of them are just fun blogs about being trans/non-binary that i thought people would enjoy.
ever wanted to do some stuff? like, different stuff? tired of having to scroll through your huge ref tag? LOOK NO FURTHER!! Have a masterpost of LITERALLY EVERYTHING
which took me 5 hours to make so reblog itArt:
- Painting tutorial
- Female/male arms
- Kneeling + Sitting ref
- Dragon head view tutorial
- SAI brushes 86786
- Drawing expressions
- Sai Brushes 1
- NGE colour palette 1
- 100+ colour palletes
- Avoiding same face
- Face contours/highlighting
- free art MyPaint
- Body anatomy help 1
- How to shift images using blur in PS
- Drawing clothe folding
- How to draw ice
- Colour palette 1
- Colour palette 2
- SAI brush settings 2
- SAI/PS pixel brushes
- Warm/Cool gray
- Flower crown tutorial
- Skin colour palette
- Pink colour sheet
- How to draw butts&thighs
- The male torso
- Drawing glowing stuff in SAI
- Drawing horse/animal legs on humans
- Drawing clouds
- Muscular male with bow stock photos
- Pastel colours
- Drawing grass fields in SAI
- Expressions&Legs
- All about the human body
- 20+ colour palettes
- Colour conversion
- Kissing ref
- Creature design
- Colour meanings
- Creating expression
- Tutorial masterpost (100+)
- Lineart
- Canine
- How to colour
- Pose studies
- Feline comparisons
- How to draw penis
- Leaf pressing
- 100+ anatomy references
- How to draw folds
- SAI brushes 3
- Sitting poses
- Colour palette 4
- Cloud painting
- How to draw 3D rooms
- Colour info
- Colouring ref
- Hair tutorial
- Clothing ref
- Bodies and poses
- SAI brushes 5
- Colour scheme designer
- Folding ref
- Heads&Angles
- Paint tool SAI masterpost
- Drawing ref masterpost (10+)
- Hair+Fur
- How to draw faces
- SAI brushes 4
- Anatomy of mutant humans
- What should I draw?
- Free art software
- pastel colour ref
- Mass art ref
- Soft SAI brushes
- ways to draw stuff
- SAI brush settings
- baseball cap ref
- Penis ref
- Drawing human wings
- Cool free art software
- Huge art ref
- Colour blender
- 2 SAI brushes
- Photoshop for free
Writing:
- Inspiration 1
- Instead of ‘whispered’
- Music for writing fight scenes
- Writing fantasy
- Emotions vocab sheet
- How to reveal character
- Writers block resource
- Writing a death scene
- BIO help
- Music to help you write
- Writing prompt generators
- Got writers block?
- How to torture a character
- Degrees of emotion
- ULTIMATE writing ref, 500+
- Character names
- Body language
- 25 days of fic
- HOW TO DRAW ANYTHING
- Writing people of colour
- nanowrimo start kit
- character flaws
General:
- Becoming an adult masterpost
- cute OTP things
- Resource masterpost
- For bored people
- Anime + Manga recs
- how to make a blanket nest
- Getting an apartment
- what should i read next?
- If you’re bored
- Delete tourists from photos
- Cute pet nicknames
- Family tree explained
- Pulling an all nighter
- masterpost of themes/pixels/emoticons
- List of demon names
- Demons & Deities in the bible
- Moss graffiti
- Types of attraction
- Trampoline = outside bed
- College textbooks
- God masterpost
- Creepypasta
- OTP necklaces
- Super silky summer legs
- Plastic keychains
- How to write cover letters
- make music on itunes sound great
- Documentarys
- Classic lit
Makeup:
- Black/gold ref 1
- Cosplay eye makeup
- Halloween eye gore makeup (tw eye gore)
- Rotting skin halloween makeup
- Eyeliner ref
- bloody halloween nails
Gender:
Backgrounds:
Clothing:
Cheer up/Be happy
Sowing:
Food:
Exercise:
Games:
- PokéRadar guide
- Play pokémon games online
- Pkmn Shiny hunting guide
- Animal crossing new leaf face/hair guide
- Free RPG games
Mental health:
shopping for plus size clothes is hard. shopping for plus size clothes in your price range is harder. so i’ve decided to compile an (ongoing) list of clothing stores that carry plus size clothes. i’ve arranged it by their average price range, bc i know my budget so i know which i can afford to shop at, and i dont like having to click every link on a masterpost trying to find one i deem affordable.
0-25
25-50
50-100
- Torrid
- Avenue
- Chubby Cartwheels
- City Chic
- Domino Dollhouse
- eShakti
- Fashion To Figure
- Evans
- Lane Bryant
- Montif C
- Modcloth
- Sealed with a Kiss
- Simply Be
- Talbots
100+
i will keep this updated so if you see i left anything off, just message me and tell me!
viemaya you’re getting down to the important stuff I like that you’re great
God bless you.
For my beautiful plus size followers….
The price break down. God bless you for this
I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you!
Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe.————————————————————————————-
Distractions;
Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts.
- -Draw something
- -This website translates the time into colours.
- -Create your own galaxy.
- -Play flowing.
- -Make a 3D line travel where ever you like.
- -Listen to music.
- -Calm.
- -Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.
Sleep issues;
- - 8 hour sleep music.
- -Rainy mood.
- -Meditation.
- -Coping with nightmares.
- -How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.
- -Calm
- -Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.
Uncomfortable with silence;
- -Rainy mood.
- -10 hours of rain and thunder.
- -3 hours of rain and thunder.
- -Human heartbeat.
- -Rainforest.
- -Sound of rain on a tin roof.
- -Autumn wind.
- -Rain on a tent
- -Traffic in the rain.
- -Soft traffic.
- -Fan.
- -Train.
- -Simply noise.
- -My noise.
- -Rainy cafe.
Anxiety;
- -How to stop worrying.
- -Tips to manage anxiety and stress.
- -The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques.
- -Self-help strategies for anxiety.
- -Helping a friend with anxiety.
- -All about worrying.
- -8 myths about anxiety.
Sad, angry and depressed/depression;
- -“I’m always sad”
- -Feeling sad.
- -Going through trauma.
- -“I’m always angry”.
- -Anger management.
- -All about anger.
- -National helplines and websites.
- -Self-help strategies for depression.
- -Dealing with depression at work.
- -Dealing with depression at school.
Isolation and loneliness;
- -Pets and mental health.
- -All about loneliness.
- -“I feel so alone”
- -10 more ideas to help with loneliness.
- -How to deal with loneliness.
Self-harm;
- -Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.
- -146 things to do besides self-harm.
- -More alternatives to self-harm.
- -Self-harm alternatives.
- -How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.
- -Getting rid of scars.
Addiction;
- -How to help a friend with a drug addiction.
- -What is addiction?
- -All about alcohol and addiction.
- -The facts about drug addiction.
Eating disorders;
- -Helping a friend with an eating disorder.
- -Eating disorder treatments.
- -Support services for eating disorders.
- -Self-help tips with eating disorders.
- -Eating disorder recovery.
- -Recovering from an eating disorder.
- -100+ reasons to recover.
- -Understanding and managing eating disorders.
Dealing with self-hatred;
- -3 ways to ease self-loathing.
- -How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.
- -Self-hatred resources.
- -10 step plan to deal with self-hate.
Suicidal;
- -International suicide hotlines (1) (2)
- -Preventing suicide.
- -Reasons to stay alive.
- -Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.
- -Coping with suicidal ideation.
Schizophrenia;
- -All about schizophrenia.
- -Helping a person with schizophrenia.
- -Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.
- -Delusions and hallucinations.
OCD;
- -Managing your OCD at home.
- -Overcoming OCD.
- -How to cope with OCD.
- -Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments.
Borderline personality disorder;
Abuse;
- -Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships.
- -Emotional abuse
- -Overcoming sexual abuse.
- -Hotlines services.
- -5 ways to escape an abusive relationship.
- -Domestic violence support.
- -Signs of an abusive relationship.
- -What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship.
- -Surviving abuse.
- -What you can do if you’re sexual harassed.
- -Sexual assault support.
- -What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused.
Bullying;
- -How to stand up against bullying.
- -How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.
- -How to help stop people bullying you.
Loss and grief;
- -How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.
- -Grieving for a stranger.
- -Common reactions to death.
- -Working through grief.
(Other loss and grief)
Getting help;
- -Seeking help early.
- -All about psychological treatments.
- -Types of help.
- -All about age and confidentiality.
Things you need to remember;
- - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.
- -Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not.
- - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this.
- -You are not alone.
- -You are enough.
- -You are important.
- -You are worth it.
- -You are strong.
- -You are not a failure,
- -Good people exist.
- -Reaching out shows strength.
- -Breathe.
- -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you.
- -Give yourself credit.
- -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones.
- -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend.
- -Focus on the things you can change.
- -Let go of toxic people.
- -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do.
- -Try not to beat yourself up.
- -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next.
- -You are not a bother.
- -Your existence is more than your appearance.
- -You are smart.
- -You are loved.
- -You are wanted.
- -You are needed.
- -Better days are coming.
- -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright.
- -You have more potential than you think.
- - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.
Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x