pawletariat:

if you work to stop gendering strangers, it becomes much easier to gender trans people right, cause you lose the sense of “facial hair = male” and “boobs = female” and stuff. when you see someone cute at walmart and think “dang he’s cute”, correct yourself to “dang they’re cute”, it’s a small thing but correcting yourself without feedback or backlash or anything does become habit and it increases the ease in which you can change pronouns for people who ask because you aren’t entrenched in gender binaries and stuff.