lol full offense but stop policing how frequently bisexuals date either genders. just cause i’ve dated 5 girls back to back doesn’t make me a lesbian, just like another bisexual woman who has dated 5 men back to back doesn’t make her straight. being bisexual means the person has the potential to be attracted to more than one gender and that’s it. what they do with it is their business so just let us live for crying out loud let us live.
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5 girls back to back doesn’t make me a lesbian
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Kinda makes it likely that you are more into girls than guys tho’.
Guys are much more available as partners for women unless they are quite unattractive.
But let’s imagine it was exactly equal that you would select a girl or a guy - that their sex genuinely was irrelevant, and that there was no difference in availability.
I’m rusty at maths, but from memory, the chance it’s coincidence is
(1/(2^5)) *100%
= (1/32)
*100%
=
0.03125
*100%
=3.125%
Feel free to correct my maths - it’s been about 35 years now since i did probability.
But if i was a betting man - i’m going to say my money is going to be on a woman for your next partner.
Maybe you are a lesbian, and maybe dudes need to know that so they don’t get hurt? Just a thought.
I love how gay people do it too. Just… really? You’re literally saying the same shit to bisexuals that straight people say to you, and you don’t see the hypocrisy?
If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
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If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
How a girl I know can sit there and talk about how they’re lesbian and how people discriminate and dismiss their sexuality and then turn right around and discredit the fact that I don’t give a fuck about genders when it comes to SO’s.
(there is a big long and very angry rant below here that while important I get not everyone wants to read it or see it ontheir dash so tl;dr… Pansexuality and Bisexuality are legitimate and telling people otherwise makes you a bigoted asshole that needs to fuck right off)
after a quick look through both this blog and what i think is your main, im sorry to tell you but youre garbage people. you do not hold the right to police what label people can or cant use for fucks sake. i am sga or i wont say that im gay, though it is basically an umbrella term for the whole community. you cant force people in “gay” bars, “gay” prides, “gay” spaces, gay everything and then tell everyone who isnt strictly sga to stfu and stop id with gay. it just doesnt make sense. Also, just a tip but if youre going to delete that post because people didnt understand the ~~irony~~ and ~~satire~~ go all the way and delete your blog also.
Bisexual person in a relationship with someone of a different sex:
I'm not straight, I'm bisexual
Gay community:
you're only saying that because you want to be a part of the Gay Club, you don't belong with us, you're basically just a straight person anyway
Bisexual person in a relationship with someone of the same sex:
I'm not gay I'm bisexual
Gay community:
why do you feel the need to clarify that? You just want to be one of the straight people, you just want to reassure them that you're Not That Gay, you don't belong with us
I love how gay people do it too. Just… really? You’re literally saying the same shit to bisexuals that straight people say to you, and you don’t see the hypocrisy?
If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
^^^for real get out my blog if you have an issue with bisexuals
what is this?????? what??????????????????????????????????? Like I could go into how sexuality has been viewed radically differently throughout history and lesbianism (and any of our modern sexualities) can not be applicable throughout the entirety of it. Calling famous “lesbian” poets/writers like Sappho pansexual would actually likely be closer to their true orientation then calling them lesbian (there is evidence that Sappho preferred women but also was interested in men) but it is still not really applicable because of how different past cultures are to ours. Neither of those abbreviations are right but saying that bisexuals/pan/queer/ect. don’t have the right to use one of them bc its “appropriating lesbian culture” is straight up biphobic/panphobic and ridiculous as hell.
honestly that post is so biphobic like the wlw community is meant for all women who love women????? it does not matter their orientation as long as they love women.
women who love women don’t appropriate lesbian culture (unless it’s certain words like butch, femme, d*ke etc just because they carry a kind of significance in the lesbian community) and honestly dividing people within the sapphic community by defining them by their relationship to men is a) biphobic/panphobic b) really misogynist??? like way to define women based on their interactions with men and c) just bad for the wlw community in general
intracommunity drama and separation is just bad in general and trying to divide wlw is so counterintuitive like what are you accomplishing here
I KNOW ITS TERRIBLE. Honestly tho some of the worst bi/panphobia I’ve gotten is from lesbians and I have no idea why? Like I wish we as a community could just NOT.
yeah most of them are also terfs/twefs who hold up gold star mentality which is unfortunate because it puts such a bad face on the lesbian community which SUCKS
lesbians who behave this way towards other wlw just? confuse the hell out of me tbh… you’d think we’d all be able to sympathize with each other and be supportive but somehow it turns into a superiority contest
yeah it’s a huge intracommunity issue (with problems coming from both sides) that’s been going on for a long time that needs to be addressed and it’s really disheartening to see it continue happening. I’ve been lucky enough to follow wlw blogs that are directed towards positivity instead of picking sides so it’s always such a shock to see shit like this going down
I love how gay people do it too. Just… really? You’re literally saying the same shit to bisexuals that straight people say to you, and you don’t see the hypocrisy?
If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
^^^ YES. Unfollow me if you’re biphobic, transphobic or discriminate in any way/shape/form please
THIS. ANNOYS ME. SO MUCH. THAT THIS IS THE RECOMMENDED RESPONSE. ON GOOGLE.
Bisexuality does not instantly equal binary. It does not mean we are solely attracted to cisgender men and women. Bisexuality does not mean we are transphobic or avoid relationships with intersex, genderqueer, transgender, dual gender, etc
I find a lot of people saying “pansexuality is more spiritual and we don’t care about genitalia like SOME people” NO. NO. Being bisexual does not equal “I love genitalia more then someone’s personality” I have every respect for pansexual people, and there are plenty of pansexual people and their supporters who don’t think like this, but those that do REALLY FUCKING BUG ME.
THIS IS NOT THE DIFFERENCE. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO ISN’T “ONE IS BINARY AND PHOBIC OF OTHER GENDERS AND THE OTHER IS ALL ACCEPTING AND LOVING AND SHIT”. If you ask my opinion as someone who has identified as bisexual for quite a while now there are two points to this argument:
1. stop fucking making a big deal out of how someone labels themselves. If they’re asking for your help fine. But if they want to be labelled as bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, asexual, lithosexual, demiromantic, aromatic, biromantic, panromantic, lithoromantic whatever they freaking want, ITS NOT YOUR FUCKING JOB TO LABEL THEM DIFFERENTLY OR QUESTION THEM ON IT. THEY DON’t HAVE TO ENTERTAIN YOUR IDEA OF WHAT THEY SHOULD AND SHOULDN’T BE.
2. Now while I can’t speak for anyone, I think for me the difference between bisexual isn’t the bullshit above, but rather that pansexuals are ‘genderblind’ as in in gender doesn’t really freaking matter to them, whereas bisexuals enjoy aspects of femininity and masculinity, not necessarily just in cisgender men and women, but it doesn’t mean that they’re inherently against anything that isn’t defined under masculinity or femininity. Essentially, like a combination of gynesexuality and androsexuality NOT A FUCKING BINARY CODE THAT MAKES THEM INHERENTLY AGAINST OTHER GENDERS OUTSIDE OF CIS OKAY?!
Now can we all stop fucking throwing a fit over this and go home and accept people for who they are rather then labelling them and pointing fingers!?
Pansexuality isn’t only “genderblind”. It’s true for a part of the community but I personnaly ID with the “attracted to all genders” def.
Otherwise all of you’re saying is so true that I’m worried some people still thinks like that.
