
did i say a mix of flags & fashion? i meant i cant design outfits for shit

did i say a mix of flags & fashion? i meant i cant design outfits for shit
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using the label asexual even if you’re demisexual or anything else on the ace spectrum because you feel like it fits you more is valid and good.
Saying it’s okay to not feel sexual attraction is not the same as saying that feeling sexual attraction is dirty and wrong.
Identifying as asexual isn’t the same as calling other people dirty for feeling sexual attraction.
Identifying as asexual doesn’t mean that you’re sexualising other people.
Asexuality is not a judgement on other people.
You’re not bad for identifying as ace.
“how can you be intimate with someone if you’re aromantic??”
sharing secrets, trusting them with your life, telling them about that stupid thing you did when you were 14 and haven’t told anyone else since, being there for them any time day or night, talking til three in the morning, letting yourself cry around them, sharing grief, sharing joy, getting excited about the things they’re excited about just because you love to see them so happy about something
an aro positivity post 😭😭😭 that lists ways to be intimate with someone 😭😭😭 that doesn’t alienate the touch averse 😭😭😭 and people with no/low empathy 😭😭😭
“The reality is that language is a critical tool with which to smash the cis-het patriarchy.” - @teenvogue