theoutli3r:

thequintessentialqueer:

I’m screaming how are some of y'all actually out here telling aspec people that they’re to blame for your internalized homophobia because you identified as ace and/or aro as a result of your shame and discomfort like……….I identified as bisexual as part of my internalized lesbophobia because I was terrified of not being perceived as available to men………that isn’t the fault of bisexual women. my shit was my shit. it came out of heteronormativity, not bisexuals being oppressors lmaaaoooo. you don’t get to assign the blame for your struggles with hetero/cisnormativity on other people existing as themselves and creating words to describe their own marginalization and identity and pride wtf………..like that is solidly Not On Them are you fucking kidding

thank you

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