trickster-goddex:

• Everything is dfab centered, from dysphoria ref pages to nb safe spaces, everything where we should be seeing ourselves equally
  
• “Masculinity isn’t androgynous” while well-meaning does not do it’s job of helping feminine androgyny grow. It makes people who have no choice but to look masculine (aka dmab people) feel like shit
  
• When we are brought up, it’s in two ways: posts that are ‘sorry’ we aren’t mentioned more, or us being lumped in with trans women
• Being ‘sorry’ doesn’t do shit, how about do something proactive so apologizing isn’t necessary
• While trans women are wonderful, we are not the same. We have different needs. Many of us can’t find refuge in feminine things like (most) trans women b/c nb people often don’t feel comfortable expressing masculine or feminine. 
• While reference guides for tucking are nice, we need more dysphoria refs. We don’t all tuck. We need other information spread too (safe hair removal for instance, which after years of growing hair I personally know jack shit about)
  
• Inclusion. If you’re running an nb help blog, or an advice column, or anything like that, you’d better have at least one dmab mod, if not, more. Otherwise you’re really not helping us.
• Community. Spread posts and information about and for dmab people. Make sure your community spaces are inclusive and welcoming to us so we don’t feel guilty for being around. It’s not fair for us to feel unwelcome because we can’t see ourselves where we have every right to be 
• Please reblog this, or contact me if I was too vague about a point or incorrect about something
• Other dmab nb people: feel free to talk to me, I’m here for you

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   Yes. Thank you for posting this @trickster-goddex. This is so true. I often feel like I am just an add on to the NB part...

6. gfbfwe said: @trickster-goddex yes. Thank you for posting this. This is so true. I often feel like I am just an add on to the NB part of the spectrum because of this. Despite having a trans support group at home I have very few people to talk to who are AMAB NB/fluid like me. We really do need more DMAB focused pages.
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15. iotonic said: You need to make dmab nb only spaces :/
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