corbinite:

theinkstainsblog:

hurleyforsocialjustice:

radicel:

radicel:

fuck it

i dont want girls sexualising mlm relationships anymore. at all

i dont want them fetishizing our relationships bc they think it’s sexy

i dont care if its a “way for them to express their sexuality”. that aint right and its messed that they can say that they want men in the porn industry to stop fetishizing wlw relationships, only to do the same bc its “fandom”

can yall please reblog this actually ??

bc like. im a boy attracted to boys. and this is making me uncomfortable and i want it to stop

and im not the only one ? a handful of people have agreed with me and im sure there are more

please dont ignore this bc you want to keep writing/drawing/reading m/m porn…. or bc im a boy and you dont care what i have to say….. especially if you disagree with the treatment of wlw in the porn industry its a double standard and this is important to me and i dont want it to be swept under the rug

Add on: you can still write, draw and read about mlm without fetishizing them. By fetishization, OP means that you only see these relationships as sexy and sinful instead of just seeing it as average everyday relationships.

Nearly every girl I’ve met within fandoms with mlm ships has only focused on the men having sex or calling them ‘my nasty gay babies’ and that’s just gross.

We’re all writers here so I thought it important that y’all see this and take note. 

It’s also a form of nonsexual fetishization if you’re just obsessed with gay men and woobifying every gay man or man you headcannon as gay (and it’s especially transparent when you specifically do this with white men but no one else)

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  7. sweetalison007-blog said: I don’t call my ships sinning or some such shit like that .
  8. sweetalison007-blog said: I fetishize romance of any kind. Any pairing of any gender, which has chemistry and emotional regard for each other, sets my heart afire and I end up shipping .
  9. sweetalison007-blog said: So it becomes kinda difficult not to imagine them in a romantic relationship. As a straight woman, I sometimes ask myself, am I fetishizing people through my ships? I know that shipping is mostly fantasy and has no bearing on rl relationships. I certainly wont dream of asking the non straight men I know invasive questions.
  10. sweetalison007-blog said: You know, I kinda realized that over 80% of my ships are slash. But this mainly because, in most books and films, the female lead is given little to no story, especially with the male lead, so when the romantic stuff comes, it becomes difficult to root for them . Like in Merlin (TV) and Sherlock the romantic interests Gwen and Molly are hardly allowed screen time. Most important and intense emotional scenes, are between . ..two male leads.
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