Me:  The ace discourse is the exact same as the bi discourse just with a different target. The way aspec people are having their identities invalidated and being attacked for being "invaders" or "wanting to be oppressed" or being "basically straight" mirrors my experience during the bi discourse. I know how it feels and I want to make sure aspecs don't feel hurt and unwanted like I used to back when my identity was the popular one to "debate" over. Also pretty much every aphobe I've ever seen has been a biphobe as well, yes even the bi aphobes, so I would be uncomfortable with them on a personal level even if basic human decency didn't make me uncomfortable on behalf of aspecs.