The reason being ace or aro or demi doesn’t automatically make you lgbt is because they’re not orientations, they’re modifiers. When you say “I’m ace!” or “I’m aro!” or “I’m Demisexual” in response to a question about your sexuality, most people are still going to wonder who you’re attracted to. Unless you’re both aro and ace, you still have a romantic or sexual orientation, respectively. Ace people can be biromantic, they can be lesbians, they can be heteroromantic. Likewise with aro people for sexual orientation. Ace lesbians are still lesbians, just as bi aros are still bi. Therefore, het aces and het aros are still het, meaning they are still straight. The Same is true for demisexuals. These “orientations” describe how you’re attracted to people, not what people you’re attracted to. Because you can still be cishet, you aren’t lgbt.
?? except aromanticism has nothing to do with sexuality?? and demi is the only modifier here? asexual people are not sexually attracted to anyone at all, and they get hated on by this entire community, have to endure conversion therapy as well and some even have to go through corrective rape? asexual people belong in the lgbt community if they feel like it (although with people like you in it,they might not want to). this post is a mess and you should spend your energy fighting against the very system system that oppresses you, not against a minority that isnt hurting anyone by identifying as queer.
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