luchagcaileag:

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lindsayjones:

rapunzel-corona-lite:

If you remember Nicole Arbour, the edgy unfunny bitch who made the Dear Fat People video and the edgetastic follow up Dear Black People, this man is her Ex Boyfriend, Matt Santoro. Now if you didn’t dislike Nicole before or even agreed with her sentiments in the videos she made, I’m not going to get into that, but I hope to hell that if you still are, to stop kissing her ass once you realize she is a physical, emotional, and verbal abuser. 

Abuse sees no gender, the hands that throw abuse have no gender. And if you truly believe men should have to shut up about these things happening to them, you’re truly fucking disgusting. No one should have to endure abuse. 

Been the victim of an insanely abusive relationship (luckily, I finally got the strength to leave and am now happily married to the love of my life). Also have several male and female friends who were/are abuse victims. 

I beg anyone who is in abusive relationship to seek solace, mentally, emotionally and physically. This is not your fault. You are not alone. You are not helpless. It is not hopeless. I also beg anyone who knows someone in an abusive relationship to speak up about it. Don’t sit in silence. They need your love more than ever. 

If you guys can, please watch this video. Matt Santoro is incredibly brave for coming out with his experiences, and he has some words of wisdom for survivors out there - particularly male survivors.

Maybe I just didn’t check the notes thoroughly enough, but I noticed none of the big anti-SJW/Anti-Feminist/MRA people who talk about how male victims are ignored reblogged this as far as I saw.

This is important, this needs to be spread, this needs to get out.