Things not to fucking say to your trans kids

spook-the-dragon:

starrygemfriend:

jona-crossing:

-It’s just in your head, you were not born a boy/girl so you’re not a boy/girl

-He’s not ready to understand, you can’t ask him to call you [preferred name]

-You’re just a kid, you don’t know those things yet

-So you’re a lesbian/gay?

-You’re half a girl and half a boy

-Do you know how hard it is for us?

-Just because now you’re in a community that’s less than 1% of the population, doesn’t mean that you need to be the advocate of them

-It’s not your real name.

-I don’t care about this cause but because of you I had to care

-Where is my little girl/boy?

-You need to explain people what that thing is about, it’s not them who should do their researches

-Do you have a penis/vagina? No. So you’re not a boy/girl

-It’s your choice, not ours

-You decided to be like this so now you need to accept the consequences

-I’m trying, I swear

-Why must you be so complicated?

-You can’t be and a boy/girl and [sexuality other than straight], you have to choose

-Trans and [sexuality other than straight], you’re going to have it tough

-This’ll ruin your life

-Do you know how hard it’s going to be for you to do all those things [hormones, operations]? And it’s so expensive too!

Feel free to add more.

-What if you change your mind after transition?

for the love of FUCK if there has ever been a more frustrating thing people have asked me-

Also, there’s NB people that are trans, so I’ve got some.

-There’s only male and female.

-No, you’re a boy/girl.

-That’s your opinion that me calling you fake is disrespectful.

-Wow, you’re such a special snowflake.

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    In my experience a lot of times even supportive parents don’t realize how harmful it is when they say a lot of these...
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