If you are dumb enough to stick a fucking hanger in your vagina then that’s your problem. No one is forcing you
Translation: I don’t personally understand why someone would be desperate enough to try to attempt an unsafe abortion so it must be because they’re dumb, and dumb people deserve to suffer for some reason. And that’s how I rationalize my gross lack of empathy for people in desperate situations.
But she’s a Christian, y'all! Just so much love and compassion. -V
Pro-lifers in a nutshell, tbh.
They honestly hate pregnant people.
No, I hate murder.
Murder isn’t what you’re ending here. It’s pregnant people’s life. Like, you openly said you don’t care if it kills them, and that they deserve it.
But okaaaaay. That isn’t murder but I think you know that, and that’s why you’re backing up from saying “i don’t hate pregnant people.”
Just own it man, we all understood ya. lol
It is murder. You are ending the life of something once living due to inconvenience.
But great point.
My cousin was born with holes in her heart. She is pro life. A pregnancy could kill her. Solution, a hysterectomy covered by insurance. There are so many ways to prevent pregnancies rather terminate them, it is ridiculous to think abortions exist.
So really, sounds to me that you hate babies and fetal life. Just say it.
Great for your cousin. She has insurance. She has the time and desire to have and recover from a majorly invasive surgery. She’s found a doctor willing to do it for her (I’ve tried to have my tubes tied and been laughed out of the doc’s office for being “too young”). I’m seriously happy for her that she found a way to avoid pregnancy entirely, but you need to realize that not everyone is your cousin.
-V
“My cousin’s life is obviously the same as everyone else!”
Er, fantastic, but the majority of doctors aren’t willing to tie someone’s tubes (especially young people) and not everyone has insurance. Not to mention that even when you do have insurance, not all of them are going to cover the procedure if they don’t find it medically necessary so, your solution that people should get their tubes tied makes no sense. Feel free to take several seats until you have a valid point to make.
-Allie
My cousin has severe Ehlers Danlos combined with scoliosis and a pregnancy could kill or cripple her. She has yet to find a doctor that will tie her tubes despite being in her early 30s. But yeah, everything in the por-life universe is SOOOO easy!
Most doctors hate tying any woman’s tubes unless she’s past “childbearing age” or already has three children. Lucky for that one person whose cousin managed to find a doctor so they could use it as proof that there are, again, “better ways then abortion”. Because obviously everyone is the same, and everyone’s life conditions means that they could actually support a child and they’re just getting an abortion out of spite. You know, rather then many many other reasons in their personal lives, that probably won’t effect anyone outside of their lives in any way shape or form. But hey, foetuses matter first right?
Life matters. You’re saying that if it were you or your mother, that’d you’d be chill with her just dumping you in the blender? Sure. And that isn’t true. My mother had her tubes tied at 36 after the twins birth. She was so fertile that the doctor said she was unable of having single kids anymore. 36 is a pretty old age for having kids
I’m pretty sure at my age, as an adult, it would be pretty hard for her to dump me in a blender now if thats what you mean. But before I was even born when I was literally a zygote with no feelings, knowledge, memory or sentience? Yeah, actually, I’d be totally chill with that because you know I wouldn’t exist? Thats the whole point? Unless you have memories that extend as far back as when you were literally just a day from being two separate cells, I’m pretty sure no-one, including you twinkle-toes, has ever been conscious and feeling as a foetus. Plus that shows complete ignorance of the way abortions are actually performed, because unless the doctors happen to be vampires looking for a gory milkshake, I highly doubt a clump of cells would be dumped in a blender but you know, not like I actually took biology or researched abortion from non-biased sources. Also furthermore, it may actually have served my mother and heck even my existence better if she had made that choice. Because of my birth, my existence, my mother had to give up all of her hobbies, a decent job, a decent home, and live with herself at the minimum, especially since she never wanted children in the goddamn first place but because of listening to society and complete idiots she decided to sacrifice her bodily autonomy for my father’s sake. Whats more, because of this, I grew up hearing that I was unintentional, that my mother originally didn’t want children, that she’d totally missed out on her dreams because of my existence. No matter how much she loves me, that can’t make up for the guilt and misery I’ve felt when I’m reminded that she could’ve done better in her life without me.
If I was given a choice between a peaceful “death”, with absolutely no conscience, knowledge, memories or concepts of life at all, and forcing my mother through agony and making her lose out on her life, I would choose the former yes. But then again I really don’t know why pro-lifers always ask me this dumb question because when I do answer it they’re always shocked, since their concepts of existence, life and philosophy are so messed up they think a clump of cells has more concept value than a life that has grown and experienced and learned and lived and loved and could do so much more. So well done you reached sarcastic me with you idiocy. I applaud you for your guts but you’re literally acting like a wind-up toy placed in front of a wall.
P.S. No matter how “young” you think thirty-six may be, how do you think the people younger then that are going to have their tubes tied? I’ve been denied every time I’ve asked, even laughed at by doctors, in a country where it is a free option, covered by insurance, for everyone. I’m extremely tokophobic and I would kill myself rather then be forced through pregnancy and labour, and doctors won’t grant me that wish. So yeah, I’m sure everyone is comparable to people “past childbearing age” (yes according to the doctors I’ve talked to, thirty is the cut off age for child-bearing) and people who have met the lucky few doctors who would grant them this privilege, all under insurance.
softmorbid said:
I don’t know about you but being forced to give birth to a baby who was the product of rape would traumatize a lot of women.
softmorbid said:
Have had abortions and feel fucking awful for it and you telling them it’s disgusting and wrong only makes them feel worse. They don’t deserve that.
softmorbid said:
I already told you what I don’t like. You’re allowed to be against abortion and even though I disagree with you I’ll fight for you to be able to voice your opinion because that’s your right. However, it isn’t okay when you voice your opinion and put other people down or make them feel bad because they go against it. It isn’t okay when you aren’t even able to sympathize with the other side of your argument, there are women who have been impregnated by rape and -
softmorbid said:
Lmao you’re actually disgusting and not worth my time. Enjoy being ignorant!!
softmorbid said:
Lol and I actually really liked your blog before this. I support you having an opinion but I do not condone you insulting and degrading people who are prochoice and/or have had an abortion. Kindly, go fuck yourself.